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Do you have a To-Do list for your activities? To-Do list is an important list to have for achieving your progress self-improvement especially in your job, because it can help you to manage your valuable time and priority. So, do you often felt stress when looking at your To-Do list? Do you know that the good To-Do list shouldn’t make you felt frustrate? It should make your life simple. The way to make good list trough comparison:

Good list
Compose item according to their priority.There is time for your self and time to sport in it.Flexible. Can be added or reduced depend on your situation on that day.There is a present in it. Example ‘dinner’ or ‘chocolate’ in the end day after you check your list.

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Every woman wants the beauty and healthy skin. Unfortunately, not all persons were born with beauty skin. The good news is, there is a hope for they who don’t have genetic factor with good habits and the correct medicine you can get the beauty skin.

• Stop the bad habits, start the good habits
  Don’t let anything dirt or oily touch your face include your hand. Although you have washed your hand, possibility it still has natural oil. Touching face is one of different to remove habits. But you will felt the benefit if you try.
  Your hand isn’t the only one contamination source that threatened your skin. Your pillowcase also covered by the dust and oil. Wash your pillowcase 1-3 times a week. Before the washing time arrives, change your pillowcase, so the inner side of it in the outside, so you will not sleep at the parts that have been covered by oil from your face and the dust from your room.
  If you are susceptible toward pressing the acne, stop it. When you press the dirt out from your face, you also push it more deep into your face. This cause your acne become red and takes more long time to cure and possibility leave the trace (scar). To overcome the acne, better if smeared a little of special medicine for acne. Read the rest of this entry »

All couples certainly ever have a quarrel. The observation result shows that a quarrel can make you and your spouse become closer with these 5 love tactics.

• Try to close the mouth
  “Finally I learn to close my mouth until my husband finish doing something fool. If I am not say the sarcastic words, I can seek what really make him worries”, Ana says.
• Open your heart
  While in a quarrel, try to see from her side beside your side. So, you will realize that maybe she is correct.
• Avoid a quarrel because of money
  “A quarrel about money is un-useful. After have a quarrel, our bill will not increase. If you are really happy, have money or not, money isn’t a problem”, Nicole says. Read the rest of this entry »

Even the coward child can learn to be optimistic according to the expert. To be optimist is a skill to makes their life became more ease. How is the way?

• Show that what they have done were useful.
  If a child feels that his/her parent is pay attention, he/she will be optimist that they will always get your attention. Your child will know that he/she will get your attention if he/she can reach something more higher.
• Give support.
  More chance you give to your child, more optimist your child will learn to overcome their problems. If you often overcome their problem, they can felt weak, so let them overcome their problem. Maybe they will felt frustrate if many problems arise or happy if can finish their difficulties. So they will much learn. Read the rest of this entry »

How you can know the true love? See these opinion from some experts. Have a pleasant time. Do you find it in ur marriage life?

• U feel pleasant
  The good relation make u happy.
• U hope can spent ur time ur time with ur spouse
  U are happy to spent the time together although in silence.
• U respect to ur spouse
  U hear ur heart praise him. If u always speak about ur self, it meant u are not focus to the relation or ur spouse.
• U like with ur spouse’s thought
  U ask his opinion about the important things in ur life, but he may have the other oppnion than u.
• U accept the bad habits of him
  Everyone have the bad habits, include you. If his habits can be tolerated, u are in good condition. If really disturb u, try to pay attention to ur relation. Read the rest of this entry »

You may ever or even often disappoint with your child’s way to finish their homework that done with hurry so that they can play again, so the result isn’t good or make many mistakes. While you know that your child can do better.
Unfortunately, there isn’t a fast way to overcome this problem, but the experts have developed the motivation strategy even for the laziest child.

• Know the hide problem
  Usually there are some causes that make the children don’t make an effort or their effort became loose. Maybe there are physically, psychologically or learning problems.
• Be realistic
  Are you focus on your child growth or your child achievement? If you focus on their achievement, your demand may be too high. The highest demand of the parent should be the good growth and continually of their children. Read the rest of this entry »

Do you want to help your children to builts their brain with simple ways?

• Read the book
  Every day Lily asks her parent to read the same book. Her parent is pleasant because doesn’t need to seek another book. Exposed by the same book or game repeatedly helps the children to growth their memory and vocabulary. A research shows that the children that read the same book will understand the difficult words in it 3 times better than if they only once hear that story.
• Doing math
  This can be done by count the thing that your children meet. Add some math concepts like plus, minus and others.
• Read more story
  You can help your children with ask them about the story like the character in a story, the story plot and other. A research in State University of New York shows that the children that their parent involves them in the story can learn faster. Read the rest of this entry »

When I read a magazine about an indigo child, I see the other article about indigo. This is a little article about it. In the last of this article I have a little opinion about indigo child.
The indigo phenomenon was found in America in 1980. At that time a spiritualist called Nancy Ann Tabb that has an ability to recognize the aura of someone saw many child have the indigo aura (with blue dye color), while the children commonly have the red, yellow or orange color. Nancy then gathered some psychiatrists to talk about the indigo child. They concluded that the indigo child have certain characteristic that make them different with commonly child. These characters are: high IQ –minimum 120, can do something that have not yet taught before, can read other’s thought, very rational and spiritual. Read the rest of this entry »

Creative process as our self-improvement can makes our life better, enrich our spare time, reduce stress, for physically and mentally health and make us more smart. Routinely life can make our brain blunt.
Creativity needs one thing: courage to try something new, release routine things and do something that you are not yet capable.

Let it flow
Creativity isn’t an action that necessary hard will or must hard work to done. Something we want is exist in our intuition. Many person find special idea when driving, take a bath or cleaning house.
Spontaneous
Creativity asks us changes our ways. Try to choose different way and express our individuality. Routine thing and adaptation aren’t creative. Felt nothing can be done is a creativity hindrance.
Start it
Start to do something you want or just do something to find if it is fit with you. It is suggested to make a list about things you want to do without long time thinking so your inner censor doesn’t has a chance to make refusal reasons like I am not enough smart or talented etc. Intelligence or ability doesn’t limit creativity process.
Out of brain
Doing daily activity and make it more pleasant or more has meaning. Find the new route or total changes in routine activity. Ask your-self why do this and that and generate curious taste.
In the morning, write anything for 3 pages with handwriting. This technique will open the new possibilities and the hidden hopes of us. You can also see art shop or go to a new program and associate with creative people.
Get free time
Research shows every time that we used for creative adventures isn’t in vain. Create something with hand (for example) make us moves from emotional situation to composure mind and acceptance.
Ready to change
Maybe your creativity will not make you popular or rich but it can changes your life. Maybe you will face uncertainty and risk but that is a part of creativity. Choose something that consistent with your talents and ability.