Motivate the Child to Make More Hard Effort
You may ever or even often disappoint with your child’s way to finish their homework that done with hurry so that they can play again, so the result isn’t good or make many mistakes. While you know that your child can do better.
Unfortunately, there isn’t a fast way to overcome this problem, but the experts have developed the motivation strategy even for the laziest child.
- Know the hide problem
Usually there are some causes that make the children don’t make an effort or their effort became loose. Maybe there are physically, psychologically or learning problems. - Be realistic
Are you focus on your child growth or your child achievement? If you focus on their achievement, your demand may be too high. The highest demand of the parent should be the good growth and continually of their children. - Give the choice to the child
Your responsibility is let your child know their talent and what must they do to growth their talent, but it is their choice to decide whether they will grow it or not. - Explain your motive
Explain to your child why you assume that an activity is important for them. The child often back to the things that they felt that they are capable or can do it if they become more old and have a chance to explore others option. - Press the positive side
Praise your child honestly. The high self-confidence will give them more motivate. - Give an appreciation wisely
The small appreciation can make them start the new activity when they become offended or their interest is loose. - Tell how happy you with your work
Telling how happy you with your work can make your child get their inspiration and spirit. Save your complaints just for your friends or husband.
The bad ways to motivate your child
- Force and punishment
- Compare
- Explain the causes
- Criticize.